Nobody knows why we come into this world …
There is a dispute, scientists, philosophers argue, argue the writers – and the end of their dispute is not expected.
I think we still come into this world to be happy.
Although the concept of happiness each his own. For someone – it is self-actualization, career, creativity, for someone – the money …
But probably most people would agree that happiness is impossible without a family.
Again, the question is, what kind of family.
We all want to be loved, understood, valued, to taking care of us …
Probably, there is nothing worse than loneliness.
But how often we are alone, despite the presence of the family – parents, spouses, children …
The researchers divided the human life cycle – prenatal period, childhood, adolescence, adulthood and old age.
And in each of these cycles, most of us have family, which develops and lives by the rules established by this particular family.
Now science has no doubt that during the intrauterine cycle child feels the impact of relations between his future parents. And these relations are reflected in the formation of his mind, character, if you will, destiny.
Therefore any quarrel, dislike, misunderstanding impose unfavorable bar on child well-being, both physically and spiritually.
It sometimes happens that the unborn child often cries because my mother did not immediately decided to leave him. She tossed between decisions – giving birth to the baby or get rid of him. This gave rise to the fear of throwing a child on an unconscious level.
Either the father often yelled at her mother and was born, the child begins to be shy father, feeling the fear in relation to him – for us mom and baby are very strong.
The same thing happens with the growth and maturation of the child, it is very sensitive to the relationship between mother and father, and also between other family members.
Not in vain, psychologists, psychotherapists and parapsychologists around the world claim that the scenario of their future life, man wrote to the family of origin, it draws out the dotted lines of its future achievements and failures.
Of course, grown up, people may not realize the ideal parent families. But to understand and realize – this is one. Rewrite the same scenario can not everyone.
So break out Pushkin’s words:
“In the light of happiness is not …”
But it still is. Just someone it is given from birth, but someone has to work hard to achieve it.
And here we must remember that you are trying not only for themselves but for their future children.
As psychologists have long observed – happy children are born to happy parents. So be happy!
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