“Do not pull in the mouth. Do not touch. Shut up! Stop whining. Now get! “Do you recognize? If not, then just make sure of his speech during communication with the offspring. This formulaic phrases how parents talk with their children.

And how many times you repeat it just for your child? Analyzing the data replicas are used in the address of their children, the conclusion suggests itself. Tedious repetition of a sermon, which the child has already memorized. I have absolutely not seen in children, even though the tone and intonation with which you have him say it.


It would not be surprising, it sounded, but in most cases the child’s bad behavior is the result of upbringing his parents. Psychologists say that adults have several options for “quick” answers to the questions of children, to which they resort, destroying, attempts to establish any relationship with their children of.


Phrases sounding like an order, depriving the child of choice and have questioned its independence. All this directly affects the child’s self-esteem. “Turn off immediately! Go and take it. Bring and filed. Not require, and ask the child be happy to help you, carrying out orders. Do not forget that everything you say, has the authority for the child. And soon you yourself become a victim of such treatment.

A negative impact on the child are a threat. “If you do not stop, I’ll go,” Do not have time time I’ll make you. Uttering such phrases, you’re not just setting up a child against itself, but also arouses his desire to make you the evil. Generates aggression, forcing the child to lock himself in himself.

Phrases that begin with “You should …”, program the child’s mind, to achieve its goal. But not always get to do, as needed, or as saying. For example: “You must win” is very commonly used phrases. You set up a child to win, but suddenly happened, so he lost. The child feels overwhelmed and not worthy of their parents.

Child, addressed to their parents for advice, especially requests participation in their lives. This is a request for empathy in the first place, and only then about resolving this situation.

Psychological deafness “- the state of the child, pay no attention to your curses, warnings and advice. Most of all your attempts to talk the child will say “Leave me alone!”, “Tired”, “How long can you”, “Enough already!”. But to accuse him of such behavior, is useless. The best way to revise its behavior towards the child.

Build relationships with quite possible, but only in the first place, radically changing their attitude toward him. Saying all the above listed “formulaic phrases, in the hearts, we are certainly going through and worried, but we do not always have time and strength to speak, and not dismiss their own children.

But do not forget that at any age, children need parental love, support and understanding. Respect your children, leave the right choice for them, do not give your child a reason to believe that it bothers you.
There are many other automatic reactions to the behavior of children.

Observe for his speech, correct their behavior, and the child will go to you for a meeting. Better yet, do not be a big experiment. During the day, eliminate criticism, curses, orders and moral instructions. Instead, praise, approve all undertakings. Spend time together, go to the movies, go skating, play football.

The reaction will not take long, you will have the opportunity to learn about your child a lot. Explain the reason for her irritation, tell me how to love him. After all, what would you say, children are not looking for anything like you. Prove you love them.

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