28-10-2009

the love boatEveryone wants to love, and no one wants to quarrel. But to avoid quarrels can not, despite the efforts. British history has preserved the memory of the custom showcase: the man who could swear before the gates of the church that for 12 months, he never quarreled with his wife, received the award in a good piece of bacon. This happened only 8 times for 500 years. And both husbands were honest? …

As the quarrel could be dangerous for the relationship, and medicine from quarrels have not yet been invented, it is better to follow a few old and tested rules.

- If you endlessly to find out who is right and who is to blame for the quarrel, it is shake the love and destroy it. That conflicts do not become chronic and protracted, it is better to find out the causes of discontent.

- Men often feel that their masculinity will be a sign of a bystander. They do so out of good intentions and hope that all settled down by itself. But the woman, as you know, loves the ears. Must pass a lot of time before she will appreciate your noble silence and non-interference. Maybe it will happen after you have parted again. If you immediately find the right words for her, give her to speak – this will be enough to ensure that the conflict had been exhausted.

- Problems in love can be solved, only deviating from their established views, walking towards each other. Women are more likely in a hurry to accept the first. But your obstinacy, it leaves residue in the shower, because she appreciates it as something that is not the road you that loved not enough. If you’re at loggerheads in time to ask ourselves the question: “What is more important for me – my opinion or our union, I or We?” – Then your love boat is not broken on the life of our life together.

- I never understood just what the woman said. No matter how the conflict broke out, no matter what words were spoken by her, she always mentally says only one thing: “I miss your love!” If you will understand and accept the validity of this claim, then you will not be wedged on your own grievances and claims .

- Do not be afraid to upset him. You decide the main problem of human existence – the problem of loneliness. Not being able to meet the other, you are deceived by the illusion of self-affirmation, that way you do not expose, save your “I”. Is a mistake. In fact, just your ego shows your lack of love for yourself. So whether or not to attach so much importance to conflicts?

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