28-10-2009

the love boatEveryone wants to love, and no one wants to quarrel. But to avoid quarrels can not, despite the efforts. British history has preserved the memory of the custom showcase: the man who could swear before the gates of the church that for 12 months, he never quarreled with his wife, received the award in a good piece of bacon. This happened only 8 times for 500 years. And both husbands were honest? …

As the quarrel could be dangerous for the relationship, and medicine from quarrels have not yet been invented, it is better to follow a few old and tested rules.

- If you endlessly to find out who is right and who is to blame for the quarrel, it is shake the love and destroy it. That conflicts do not become chronic and protracted, it is better to find out the causes of discontent.
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27-10-2009

destroyAny relationship, even the most seemingly solid, can easily destroy the frequent and unnecessary squabbles. How to avoid them? With this task better handle a woman, assuming the noble mission of peacemaker. To be successful, try to follow some recommendations.

1. Do not make a man constantly repeating how much he loves you. Few representatives of the stronger sex are able to harp on about it day and night. Better not irritate him with questions like: “You, however, you love me?” And pay attention to his actions. If a man really cares, empathizes, seeking help and to please – it is a thousand times more expensive than all the nice words.

2. Logically follows from the first. Most of the men is enraged by the endless stupid questions. They can not control himself and respond so that you will be hard to conceal the offense. Do not forget about it.
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